It's been just rainy and stormy weather forecast in the San Francisco Bay Area and will be for quite some time. I've been arriving home soaking wet, damp, and cold. I just want to hibernate under my warm cozy heat blankets and drink hot peppermint white chocolate with mini marshmallows.
So I came home for this decent spread courtesy of my house mate who got dinner for us for the night while we binge watched the latest new episodes of Gangs of London Season 2. I was working up an appetite considering I hadn't had a proper meal since Christmas week dealing with my father's accident and health conditions. It also felt good to know that there are people around me who really do care for me and will do these nice things for me as a way to show me that they do care and value me. Most people would take me granted every chance they would get. In the world we live in today, there are many out there who don't care and would take advantage of others if they had the opportunity. I have always considered myself to be a man of good and have faith that some of my good deeds will help others do good in return. It's very rare for me to act as a patron and help others in desperate need without expectations so when I do choose to help others, it comes with full trust and unconditional love. No strings attached. Needless to say that there is a major difference when it comes to me offering versus when someone makes me feel obligated (to/for them, like an "I owe you"). I don't do IOUs. I don't like doing favors. I like helping. There's a major difference. Helping others means without IOUs, favors, and obligations. To me, favors is technically an immediate request with an obligation and I don't like feeling obligated or putting others under such conditioned situations. When it comes to asking me for a huge favor, it's a no! If people whom I feel akin to are asking for sincere help then it depends on my capability to help them because I have to help myself first! However, if I'm the one offering, let it be known that my offer will not fall short because you're dealing with a Kaneda Yoshida and my reputation revolves around me keeping my word especially if that offer or promise is coming out of my mouth! I'm also a man of action! I don't like to do a lot of talking and say empty words that have no meaning or no solid bearing to show for. Now, if I find offense (especially towards me from the person that I'm offering to help or have asked for my help), let it be known that they will never receive the rarity of receiving my patronage ever again because that trust is then lost. Oh my look at the time! I've reached the end of my daily blog for today. The time is 9:05 pm and I have to tuck in for the night to get back on the work grind tomorrow morning at 4:00 am. Bonsoir! |
AuthorA Nichijou Blog is a blog that entails the everyday or day-to-day mundane and random life and moments of Kaneda Yoshida, otherwise known as Yoshi, he shares his career goals, work life, education, general skills, family life, close-friends, love life, social life, involvement with the LGBTQIA+ community, human rights activism, unique hobbies, general interests such as his love for cooking and wine, to sharing some of his favorite categories at random, opening up deep secrets about him as a person, sharing past-life moments, batting anxiety and depression, and his life as a bisexual transgender man. Archives
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